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I choose to be a angel. But enviroment or should i said reality has change me into devil. The tempetation they given me was only suvivor. Only when u are evil, then you will know when other going to lauch a attack on you. ' good people always died early' sound familar huh? being too nice, people just take advantage of you. you help them once, they will keep using you to do it. Because angel don't said 'No'.
My teacher taught mi that this world don't need another mother teresa. In this reality, people just don't care. It help them to save their butt from trouble or to protect their job. what ever the reason maybe. They can pretend nothing happen when they saw other people being in disadvangtage. they would just said, it not problem so why should i care, why should i raise the problem out? human will then weight the benfit in it. If there isn't any, or it going to affect their staute in the orgainization, over you fat hope they will help you.
when people are sad, they just want someone to be there for them. But not to ask 'why' question. Because it really annoying. when the person it ready to said it out, it will said. so just be there to lend a shoulder but not ask question. it really help the person alot. Imagine, you are really rather sad about being replace or family issuse. Would you want other to ask you ' why are u feeling vexed?' 'why you quarrel with your family' 'why this and why that' STOP IT!!!. when a person in vexed, what you said might trigger it more. or 'you should not quarrel with them' 'i know what they did is wrong but they are your parent' COME ON... the person is already..... and you are leturing them. Bet you are in this situtation before. But when we are at the other position, we tend to forget what we expect too when we are in the moodly sititation. So just be there silent and ready to lend a shoulder but PLEASE keep your month tight till they are ready to said. Sometime, people do think without thinking. give them some space, i guess we are all old enough to think but all we need is to cool down first. And if there always an answer to every 'WHY' question then i bet alot of us has a few 'WHY' question to ask god.
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